I have heard responses concerning a wife retaining her father's name upon marriage. The Ayaat mentioned from Surah AI-Ahzaab states that adopted sons (and hence daughters?) should not be called as sons of the step-fathers. However, how exactly does this apply to a wife simply changing her name for marriage; as she is not actually claiming to belong to her husband, but just taking his name? If it is a question of lineage, I would appreciate specific references from the Qur'an and hadith. Why a Woman Should Not Take Her Husband's Surname?


Praise be to Allaah. The effects of imitating the West in naming ourselves are many. One of them is the way In which people have got used to omitting the word 'ibn' (son of) or 'ibnatu' (daughter of) between their own names and the name of their fathers. The reason . for this is, firstly, because some families have adopted children and given them their surname, so that the adopted child is called Foolaan Foolan [where 'Foolaan (so and so)' stands. for a name] and their real children are called Foolaan ibn Foolaan (So and so the son of So and so). Now in the fifteenth century AH, people have dropped the word 'ibn' or 'ibnatu' - which is unacceptable according to linguistics, custom and Sharee'ah. May Allaah help us.

Another Effect

Another effect is the habit of women taking their husband's surnames. Originally, the woman is 50 and so the Daughter of So and so, not So and so the wife of So and so! Allaah says:

"Call them (adopted sons) by (the names of) their fathers, that is more just with Allaah •••" (Q33 -[al- Ahzaab]:5).

As it is in   this world, so it will also be in the Hereafter, as the Prophet (sallaallahu alayhi wa sallaam) said:

"On the Day of Resurrection, each betrayer will have a banner raised beside him, and it will be said, this is the betrayer of So and so the son of So and so. '' (Bukhaari).

Shaykh Bakr Abu Zayd (RAH) said:

This is one of the beauties of Sharee'ah, because calling a person by his father's name is more appropriate for knowing who is who and telling people apart. The father is the protector and maintainer of the child and his mother both inside and outside the home. This is why the father mixes with people in the marketplaces and takes risks by travelling to earn a halaal living and strive for their sakes. So the child is given the name of the father, not of the mother who is hidden away and who is one of those whom A1laah commanded:

'And stay in your houses •••" (Q33 [al- Ahzaab1:33)

(Tasmiyat al- Mawlood). Blood Ties Between Husband & Wife On the basis of the above, there is no blood tie between the husband and wife, so how can she take his surname as if she is part of the same lineage? Moreover, she may get divorced, or her husband may die, and she may marry another man. Will she keep changing her surname every time she marries  another man? Furthermore, there are rulings attached to her being named after her father, which have\ to do with inheritance, spending and who is a mahram, etc. Taking her husband's surname overlooks all that. The husband is named vafter his own father, and what does she have to do with the lineage of her husband's father? This goes against common sense arid true facts. The husband has nothing that makes him better than his wife so that she should take his surname, whilst he takes his father's name. Hence everyone who has gone against this and taken her husband's name should put matters right. We ask Allaah to put allthe affairs of the Muslims right.

The above questions were answered by Shaykh Muhammad Salih AI-Munajjid [www.islamqa.com] Continues on P. 31

This article was culled from the publications of Deen Communication Limited

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